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Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by Selene310187 » Fri Sep 12, 2025 3:18 pm

In the next few days, I will receive the lease agreement and the form for the notice to quit the old flat. The move will take place in November. Then I can finally say goodbye to this neighbour and open a new chapter in my life.

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Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by Selene310187 » Sat Sep 06, 2025 5:54 pm

Avrie wrote: Sat Sep 06, 2025 1:53 pm That's great news. I'm so happy for you.
Thank you, too :sn-2:.
Avrie wrote: Sat Sep 06, 2025 1:53 pmI think I'm finally ready to move into my new house today...
I hope everything goes/went well.
Avrie wrote: Sat Sep 06, 2025 1:53 pm I'll groan for both of us LOL. Not looking forward to packing up, but so looking forward to moving in.
Same :sn-4:

Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by Avrie » Sat Sep 06, 2025 1:53 pm

That's great news. I'm so happy for you. I think I'm finally ready to move into my new house today... I'll groan for both of us LOL. Not looking forward to packing up, but so looking forward to moving in.

Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by A paleofdye n » Fri Sep 05, 2025 11:32 pm

Congrats, you deserve it! I'm happy for you

Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by Selene310187 » Fri Sep 05, 2025 12:41 pm

Today I received the response from the landlord, earlier than expected: they have chosen me for the flat :sn-13:! I just need to submit the documents the landlord needs to review (such as payslips) by 11 September. If everything is in order, I can sign the lease agreement.

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Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by Avrie » Fri Sep 05, 2025 11:38 am

Selene310187 wrote: Thu Sep 04, 2025 2:37 pm I viewed the other flat and expressed my interest in it. The landlord will let me know at the beginning of next week whether I will get the flat, as I am not the only applicant.

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Fingers, toes, and eyes crossed.... Good luck.

Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by Selene310187 » Thu Sep 04, 2025 2:37 pm

I viewed the other flat and expressed my interest in it. The landlord will let me know at the beginning of next week whether I will get the flat, as I am not the only applicant.

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Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by Selene310187 » Tue Aug 26, 2025 6:04 pm

I have my next flat viewing appointment next Tuesday. I'm looking forward to it.

As for my neighbour, he's less noisy at the moment. I was even able to sleep through the night last night. I know from experience that this situation can change again. If it gets much worse again, I have a few options for staying somewhere else temporarily.

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Re: Neighbour brings me to the brink of a nervous breakdown

by Selene310187 » Thu Jul 24, 2025 12:33 pm

Avrie wrote: Sat Jul 19, 2025 12:37 pm You know, as a contractor what really bothers me is how simple the 'slamming door' issue is to fix. There are small 'self-sticking' cork, or felt squares, available at any hardware store that are usually used as replacement 'feet' so project boxes don't slide around and scratch the furniture.
If it ever comes to a mediation meeting, I will suggest this. According to the reply to my last email, the neighbourhood manager is in contact with the ombudsman's office. Unfortunately, the reply did not provide any more specific information.


Yesterday was the flat viewing appointment: The flat had less thin walls, but the noise from the very busy road just behind the house was too much (and I don't want to keep the windows closed all the time). So I'm looking for other flats that will hopefully suit my needs better. That's why I'm having a face-to-face meeting with my caseworker on 5 August to make it clear to her that my extreme sensitivity to noise needs to be taken into account when proposing flats (putting me in a large building with umpteen flats and probably very thin walls is counterproductive).

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